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Turn your Ménage à trois fantasy into reality.

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Think you’re the only human craving a party behind closed doors? Well you’re not alone. A whopping 89% of people in the USA fantasize about having a threesome, said by sex researcher Dr. Justin L. The truth of the matter, only about 18% of US Males have ever actually had a threesome, according to a study from 2015.

 

Well times are changing for sure, and if this is on your list of fantasies… you’re in luck, Technology can help itch that scratch. Modern dating apps aren’t just targeted for singles looking to date and find that special someone anymore. Their are actually specific apps, solely to help people in relationships organize a three-way.

 

Swiping your way to a threesome might sound a little daunting. There might be a voice in the back of your head asking, What if something goes wrong? But it doesn’t have to, if you and your partner are well-prepared. We put together a few points to have checked off prior to fulfilling that fantasy, as well as which app (we’ve heard) have the best success rate.

 

Figure out exactly what you want.

We assume you’ve already discussed that taboo topic with your significant other, and both are excited about sharing your special time with someone new. BUT that’s step 1… Have you actually discussed in depth the specific fantasies you want to try out? Create a sex menu with your SO, openly chat with them on things you’ve desired, want to try, or just simply been curious about. It’s worth being very clear about who wants what, and why. When you’re certain on what the both of you expect from the threesome, don’t hesitate to share this information with your new 3rd. There’s no such thing as T.M.I in this situation.

 

Meet the new member prior.

If you’re trying to have a healthy long term relationship, whether with 2 or 3 people… same rules apply. Realistically you’re not going to have the best sex of your life from a one night stand. especially if its a threesome. Arrange to meet them in a casual setting before the big event so you can see if you’re all attracted to each other. Get to know them, have a few drinks, break ice, and build a connection.

Create your fence.

Next up, it’s time to talk sex admin. With more people between the sheets come more complications. It’s no longer merely about making sure the two of you are happy and satisfied; you need to think about the third. That’s why you’ve got to talk about what you’re all happy with when the action kicks off. Discuss boundaries, dos and donts, and a safe word everyone is agreed upon. Its always better to be safe than sorry.

 

Make them feel special.

While it may feel naughty having a third join you, you should make sure that you treat them like a person—not merely an accessory to you and your partner’s sex life. Going to bed with a couple is nerve-wracking, so you want to make them welcome.“It’s like having a dinner party,” so they say. You’re welcoming that third into your space. Ideally, you already have a good enough emotional, secure space to do this.

If you’re hosting the threesome, take some time to make your home look inviting. You’re supposed to be wooing the third, so you need to make an effort. You might want to put on music, light some candles and, at the very least, change your sheets. It’s plain good manners. On the other hand, you should also make them feel welcome in a figurative sense.

When things kick off, keep in mind what the third is looking for from the experience. At the end of the night, they deserve to be just as satisfied as the two of you. Be generous with them—sharing is caring, after all.

 

Which App is the best for you.

Searching for a third online isn’t nearly as sordid as it sounds. Believe it or not, there are a variety of threesome apps you can use to find the right person while staying safe and keeping your details private. Here are a few you may wish to consider. Oh, and all are completely free to sign up and use. *in app purchases available.

Feeld

Branded as the “dating app for open-minded couples and singles,” Feeld could be your go-to place to find a threesome. You can either browse alone or as a couple, chat with people online, and then arrange a meet-up. Want to keep your sexcapade a secret? This app allows you to “hide” from your Facebook friends, which means you won’t match with them. It might just save you an awkward conversation or two.

3Somer

For those of you who are a little more experienced, you may want to give the 3Somer app a whirl. The platform is specifically for couples and swingers, which means that it may draw a more seasoned crowd. Meeting someone (i.e. a third) could be as easy as creating a profile with your partner, swiping through singles, and saying hello.

Fantasy

What could be more alluring than sharing your fantasies with like-minded adults? That’s what this next app is all about. Fantasy allows both couples and singles to connect over the things that turn them on! Plus, you can go incognito and sign up for a “guest” profile, which means that this one doesn’t sync with any of your social accounts.