[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Have you ever received a comment from a member that was rude, hurtful, and uncalled for? Your first reaction may be to retaliate. You want to say something just as hurtful right back in front everyone in your room. <\/span><\/p>\n But it\u2019s a bad idea. Is it worth making yourself look evil? Is it worth losing members that aren\u2019t feeling the vibe of your attitude because you lost it? Is it worth losing tips? NO it\u2019s not!<\/span><\/p>\n Keeping your cool is being professional. You should never let them get under your skin… but if you\u2019re ever just about to lose your sh*t on someone…DON\u2019T. \u00a0You\u2019re human and it can happen in any job regardless of your industry.<\/span><\/p>\n There\u2019s no reason to lose your sh*t over a member acting like a troll. These guys shouldn\u2019t really annoy you since it\u2019s happening only on the internet and you don\u2019t personally know them. If you have enough of someone or something, you can just say: “<\/span>Please stop doing that”, “That was awful what you just wrote, I don’t wish to chat with you again”<\/span><\/i>, etc. <\/span><\/p>\n Feel confident standing up for yourself but be professional. It\u2019s okay to put rude members in their place or report them and then MOVE ON. Being a doormat is not good and you should take control of your room\u2019s activities. A member should respect your room rules, you as a performer, and the site\u2019s rules. <\/span><\/p>\n There could be more rude members around the corner, so be prepared. Camversity does its best to drive the best quality traffic to the site by being picky about allowed members. But, there may be even good tipping members that are not nice for some reason. Don\u2019t let the web get to you. Be professional, clear your mind from negativity, and entertain more great members. <\/span><\/p>\n You don’t need that stress and toxic energy in your body. \u00a0So better let’s learn to be smarter than them… not easy but worth it. The beauty of <\/span>being a webcam model<\/span> is being able to create your room\u2019s atmosphere. You don\u2019t have to justify why you don\u2019t like a rude member who is being impolite or rude towards you. <\/span><\/p>\n Some members want to see your reaction and fire you up with anger. But is it worth losing your cool? You have a full room of members, and there could be one or two not being respectful. Why destroy your earning potential when you could simply ignore them? By not acknowledging their harsh or mean comments, you\u2019re not feeding their fire. Therefore, not disrupting your room\u2019s atmosphere and your fans that have come to have fun and tip you. No one wants to stick around in a room that\u2019s bad vibes. So be wise and don\u2019t give trolls your time.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n One thing that almost all cam models love about this work, is the control they have. In forums, many girls talk about how such trolls have helped them learn to control their anger. Even become wiser at dealing with people. <\/span><\/p>\n Now, when you\u2019re about to slash back – think twice. Choose your words carefully before reacting. These kind of troll members want to get on your nerves and will die for you to negatively react. So, keep calm and keep a relaxed face. Depending on the situation, you can block that annoying member in a matter of seconds. But NEVER let that member ruin your vibe. If you feel upset, just place emphasis back on your group of fans who love interacting with you and get them to chat more. Refresh the room energy and get back to those you appreciate you.<\/span><\/p>\n The world isn\u2019t all butterflies and fairy dust, right? Neither is the online world. There may be trolls that come to break up your sunshine. The online realm is no different than working in the real world if you think about it. Have you ever worked a service job? Bartended? Waitressed? Customer support? There are customers that are rude and try to make you feel bad. This could happen even online, but what\u2019s better working on Camveristy than another job? You don\u2019t have to accept it. You have the power to dismiss that member and not acknowledge him. <\/span><\/p>\n Being a camgirl comes with establishing your own room rules. There are some rules in your Model Agreement but the way members treat you is up to you. So instead of letting members ruin your day and hinder your earnings, just let that member go. If you have 200 users in your room, and one is being rude, just keep smiling. Pay attention to your other loving fans and let that indecent member feel your coldness. You may look like a b*tch to one person, but your whole fanbase will see how maturely you handle things. <\/span><\/p>\n The member that just sits there and watches won\u2019t be the last of his kind. These \u201changing around\u201d types will come and go and sometimes not participate politely. \u00a0These kinds of members will try a trigger or two to get a reaction from you, so keep cool. Relax and let them be, and keep your control. <\/span><\/p>\n Sometimes, you\u2019ll be surprised that members who you\u2019d never expect to take to your private will at some point. In the end, you have control of your room. So if it gets out of hand and it\u2019s irritating your room vibe, you have the ability to block him. So no reason to get angry when you have the driver\u2019s wheel!<\/span><\/p>\n It\u2019s hard not to take someone\u2019s behavior personally, but realize something important. There is something wrong with a person who gets off on making others feel horrible, especially to total strangers. It\u2019s better to just feel sorry for them as they are probably miserable in their real life. <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Have you ever lost your temper during your stream and could not rein it in? 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#1 Stand up for yourself<\/b><\/h3>\n
#2 <\/strong>Don\u2019t give them what they want<\/b><\/h3>\n
#3 Choose words carefully.<\/b><\/h3>\n
#4 Smile and move on<\/b><\/h3>\n
#5 Simply ignore<\/b><\/h3>\n